Hellloooooo readers !
First of all thank you so much for all the appreciation for “in someone’s shoes”
Last day of the year and you all have your 2019 resolutions ready and if not then make them.
Many of us made resolutions in past and most of us didn’t achieved them , right?
Let’s talk about the main reason of why we didn’t achieve them. We all set goals in our life and only few of us are able to achieve them. The main reason behind this is our Thinking, the way we think.
Let’s go with an example :- for those who want to loose weight, they think how good they will look when they will get the perfect slim body. This motivates them and they set a target of reducing 5-10 kgs. They make plans on how to reduce to those extra kgs, they even start with it. But then there thinking changes, rather than thinking about the results they think like -oh no man i have to wake up early in the morning i can’t, i want to eat pizza but i can’t, this diet sucks etc and then what happens is they get demotivated and then at last they give up saying things like who cares, people should take me the way i am.
This is not the way you achieve your goals. Each one of us need to get better than we were yesterday.You will always have to think about the results instead of the efforts you are going to put in.
What if the warrior in the battle field feel pity on himself saying my hand is bleeding ,there are so many enemies i can’t defeat them,i need someone with me ……stop. Warriors never think like this, all they think about is conquering the enemy
Whenever you feel like giving up just think about results, think about that slim body, your marksheet with grade A,think about that light in your dad’s eyes when you will make him proud,think about the day when you can look into the mirror and say to the person in there “yeah i am proud of you”.
And you should not ,you definitely should not need any reason or anyone whom you need to prove. Just do it for yourself. Set goals for yourself achieve them and face the person in the mirror. No one here is your competition , we all have different circumstances and fair competition is when the person you are competing with have the same abilities and skill as you have. Your only competition is the person you were yesterday. Work hard, work smart ,dont give up even if you are going slow keep on going , because God never measures our smartness all he measures is the efforts we put in & our true desires.
So keep going, have faith and think about the results. Wish you all grand success in the coming year.
Lots of happiness, light and positivity to you all guys ✨